How does this affect your marriage?

It affects mine.  Adversity is hard on a marriage.  Really, a good marriage should be equipped for anything, since you are in it for life and life is never easy; however, this feels very difficult now.  I have the emotional burden of worrying about my kids all the time.  my husband gets angry, wants to punish Landon if he peers over a book, etc, he does not understand. It has not been easy.  Alex is quick to lash out, to make comments, to get frustrated.  I just want a break.   I need a break from it all! Weekends are better, so let's see how this goes...